Setting Limits and boundaries

One cannot be too generous and too trustworthy of people. “Period!” There are many sweet talkers in this world looking for people to prey on. They will do anything just to get the money from you. They do not care if you sweat blood and tears with the money you worked hard for but as long as they get that piece of cake they think they deserve; they will always find a way to get that pot of gold. They will first try to gain your trust masking as a true friend. They will compliment you with sweet words till you are totally hypnotized. They will hang around you and act like vultures. They will first try a fingernail. Then, they want your finger and your hands. After that, they will try to get every piece of your body parts till you are left hang and dry. Once it is gone, they will fly fly away……………..

Give me-Give me-Give me!

This is an epidemic not just in my culture but all throughout the western culture as well. Vultures will always prey on the weak so my advice is to learn how to say the big “NO”. Set limits and boundaries to protect you from harm-emotionally and financially. Who cares if they get mad; it is not your ______________ problem.

So here is Jenny’s rules:

1) State rules clearly
2) Use a few words as possible
3) Be firm (No No No No No No)
4) Once the decision is final,
please do not change your mind or
be fickle about it. This just creates
an opportunity for the abuser to come your way.

Once again,
Always stay vigilant at all times…..
Do not loose your guard!