making the change

About making choices

/ Jennifer Bichara / 7 Comments

This post is about making choices; I feel I have to motivate myself to make that change. It’s tough but I do really have to make that change. Don’t you wish everything goes smoothly in life that all the time, we don’t encounter any setbacks? No problems. Everything is perfect in this world.

I need to decide!

Yes, it is very disappointing but it all happens to all of us. Nothing is perfect in this very imperfect world even the lucky ones encounter problems. There will come a time when faced with a dilemma; one has to make a choice – one or two choices. I sometimes flip a coin but only the simple choices I do that. Disappointing, yes, but hey – what can I do? One choice can affect the other choice so I will go with my gut instinct and see what happens so I will motivate myself and move forward.

Yes or No…

If it is meant to be, it will always be for me but like I always said, a bad experience can also be a good one in the long run.

Knowing me, perseverance is my strongest quality and not all people know this. I do not quit. I never give up. I never ever will let it stop me. I do not let one bad experience hinder me from anything under the sun. If I have to dive the sea of uncertainty, I will do it. When the picture doesn’t fit; do not force it.

Its time…

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2nd Photo Credit: Listverse

When it is okay to turn back or bite?

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Sometimes we think we are very sure of our path to destiny but once in awhile, we cannot see the road we are travelling on.  When this happens, we seem to falter and break away. For once, I was very sure of my path but now..I really don’t know…I do know what I want but the road I am taking seems to be the wrong one. So what do I do now? Take the u-turn. Its up to us to know when to stay or backout. I am not being afraid.  I am just being logical. Sometimes taking the bravery route can be foolish so the best solution for now is to step back. Follow your instinct..Follow the voice in your head..what does it say?  Listen to it for when it says go for it, then go but when there is hesitation; stop and turn. You are not a fool but you are just being smart.

For some, finding their path is easy but for some, may take a long time.  I am not giving up.  I know that one day I will find the road to my path. Simple as that!

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Making the decision

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Making a decision:

Every time I would make an emotional decision, it is most of a time guaranteed failure. So now since I am planning and working for a change that could alter my life, I stopped and seeked advice from several people close to me. My emotional self, wants it all but realistically not so.  My conscience was telling me to weigh first the pros and cons of making the decision so I decided to do otherwise. I need to think this through and plan it out more carefully. Seeking the advice of experts and love ones made me realized not to rush things right away.  I made some revisions on the proposal that is more conducive and safer for me. To make it short, a wiser move.  Start small and will plan the bigger move when the right time comes. For now, I will take my sweet time and check other options if the revised plan does not fall through.

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If you are stuck, listen up…

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Truly inspiring….An Invocation for beginnings

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Inspiring.  Catchy thump, thump, thump rhythmic cadence.  Hypnotic.  Worthy 3 minute clip.  A few of my favorite excerpts.

“This is an invocation for anyone who hasn’t begun to start, who is stuck between 0 and 1”

“Let me think about the people I care about the most.  Like when they fail or disappoint me, I still love them, I still give them chances, and I still see the best in them.  Let me extend the same generosity to myself.

“If I catch myself wearing a tutu – 2FAT, 2LATE, 2OLD, let me shake it off like…”

“Let me be not so vain to think that I am the sole author of my victories and a victim of my defeats…”

“Let me remember that the unintended meaning that people project on to what I do is neither my fault or something I can take credit for.”

“Let me not think of…

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